Rather than an uber structured event, we planned an open house format with a window of time for guests to drop in and see the couple. Heather did the heavy lifting in terms of the theme and the location and I brought the sugar cookie favors and cupcakes.
We share a general distaste for shower games and opted to do a onesie decorating station instead, asking guests to design and decorate onesies in all different sizes for the baby to wear over the coming year.
The couple was happy with the outcome and I love that it was relaxed and not filled with weird games. Success!